Welcome to "Your old pal CoKane knows that most people don't read things longer than a line or two anymore but now that she has a break after an intense few months of freelancing is using the quaint form of blogging to figure out how to write in her own voice again."
Ahem. Okay. [cracks knuckles]
Here is an activity that sounds like it would be cathartic after life has put you through the wringer and you are getting divorced: burning things that represent things.